How to: Kiss
This is a manual on how to kiss. Kissing can be a hard thing to do until you get comfortable, and whereas nothing can fully prepare you for a kiss, this “howto” will explain some of the basics of kissing and explore some simple do’s and don’ts.
Look, I am not an expert in kissing, well…nobody is. The information I have provide you is based upon my own experience.
Let’s begin with a kiss.
How to: Kiss
This is a manual on how to kiss your partner. Frankly, kissing is not rocket science. You just need to kiss that’s it! I do remember when I had my first kiss….mmmm!! It was horrible. Saliva and wetness all of over my face and I wasn’t really comfortable with the person I was with. My advice is, if you are going to kiss someone, make sure to feel at ease with the person.
The introduction of a kiss can actually be a difficult part of kissing. Sometimes you feel when it’s going to happen, whether it’s from an exchange of words or eye contact. Easy conversation comes to a stop, but eye contact is not broken. Head turns slightly, lips are licked or bitten. Your partner smiles in combination with any of the above behaviours. Trust me! Your partner makes physical contact with you much more than what seems suitable for normal conversation. It usually occurs when he/she touches you on your hands, shoulders or legs. This type of behaviour is easy to spot on humans.
Do you remember your first kiss? I am sure you do. Did your eyes become soft and heavy? How about when you both maintained eye contact?
People usually ask me…how do I know when someone wants to kiss me? It’s simple! To give your partner the signal that you want to kiss him/her, you might need to try the combinations below.
Firstly, make eye contact and allow it to hang on for few moments longer than normally. Second of all, sexy smile at all times. People enjoy watching others smiling. Especially when you relax the muscles around your eyes and as you should find ways to respectfully touch your partner. They will appreciate you.
Now, if you have tried these, but are still hesitant then there is nothing wrong with simply asking your partner if he/she wants to be kissed! If approved then you see that the mood has changed. However, sensing the magic in the air is always nicer than just asking. Sometimes is better to be sure with the person you want to kiss or otherwise you are heading to an embarrassing situation. So just ask. Nevertheless, if you have already assessed the circumstance, and it seems that a kiss is about to happen, then the next thing to do is approach slowly. Remember the kiss is the first opportunity to physically connect with your partner, and so you want to meet him/her in the middle.
Bear in mind that the kiss you share is as unique as your relationship with that person, so follow your heart and use this method as a rough guideline, on how to kiss passionately.
First step: create a physical relationship by placing your hands on the desired person. You can especially softly cradle her/his face. Make sure to be gentle with your touch, and especially if this is the first time you are connecting with that person. Warning: stay away from “high risk” zones on your partner’s body, as you want to show that you are interested in kissing only when starting out.
Second step: Maintain eye contact with that person at least until the lips are together. Trust me! Make an effort and look at your partner with a deep, yet soft look. You should use your eyes to send him/her a message that shows you care and are interested to be kissed.
Third step: Judge how fast your partners is leaning in and try to meet in the middle point between him/her, so neither person is going too far. Overstretching can make one person feel like they are not engaging enough.
Final step: As you soon as you lean forward, tilt your head to hold. You should make a room for the other person, so both people can just slightly tilt heads in opposite directions. Mainly you are just trying to avoid head collision as you get closer.
My final thoughts. Enjoy the kiss and don’t be afraid to experiment with your tongue. Although there are a lot of opinions different people like different kinds of activity so you are just going to have to learn what turns your partner on. Just try your best to make the kiss special for that person. Kiss, kiss!